<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Holding Hope Counseling Center]]></title><description><![CDATA[Empowering Minds, Healing Hearts through Workshops for Chronic Illness Conversations]]></description><link>https://www.holdinghopecounselingcenter.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2026 12:46:16 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.holdinghopecounselingcenter.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[When Medical Gaslighting Becomes Self‑Gaslighting]]></title><description><![CDATA[For many people living with chronic illness, chronic pain, disability, or medically unexplained symptoms, the most painful part isn’t always the illness itself — it’s the way they’ve been treated while trying to get help. Medical gaslighting doesn’t just leave you unheard in the exam room. Over time, it can change the way you talk to yourself, trust your body, and make sense of your symptoms. This is the part no one warns you about: external gaslighting eventually becomes internal...]]></description><link>https://www.holdinghopecounselingcenter.com/post/people-pleasing-as-a-trauma-response-in-chronic-illness-disability-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ea1760bbc0f3ff7448b177</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 13:39:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c3ae75_553b8f02aa3e4ee2b069276606430c30~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_720,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>marah757</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[People‑Pleasing as a Trauma Response in Chronic Illness &#38; Disability]]></title><description><![CDATA[People‑pleasing is often misunderstood as a personality trait — something soft, agreeable, or overly accommodating. But for many chronically ill and disabled people, people‑pleasing is not about being “nice.” It’s a fawn response: a trauma‑based survival strategy shaped by years of medical trauma, disbelief, and consequences for expressing needs. When you’ve been dismissed, punished, or labeled “difficult” for advocating for yourself, appeasing others becomes a way to stay safe. It becomes a...]]></description><link>https://www.holdinghopecounselingcenter.com/post/people-pleasing-as-a-trauma-response-in-chronic-illness-disability</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69e9208f942be5aa10c118d0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 19:31:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c3ae75_e4c81383b68b494981c844aa981d76ab~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>marah757</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Medical Care Feels Like a Threat]]></title><description><![CDATA[For many people living with chronic illness or disability, medical care isn’t just stressful — it can feel dangerous. Not because you’re “too sensitive,” but because your body has learned, over years of invalidation or unpredictability, that medical spaces are not always safe. This is medical trauma. And it’s far more common than most people realize. As a therapist who specializes in chronic illness, chronic pain, disability, and medical trauma, I see this every day in my Connecticut...]]></description><link>https://www.holdinghopecounselingcenter.com/post/when-medical-care-feels-like-a-threat</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69e91ed2942be5aa10c113cb</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 19:21:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/c3ae75_c4d9150421754bf2bf73e264ae383f08~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_686,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>marah757</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>